Do You Love Kinky Books?

Do you enjoy fantasizing about being in a relationship that involves quite a bit of kink? Maybe you love to imagine what might happen in the basement of a house like the one above? Are you thrilled when you read about how others have lived in a 24/7 kinky relationship?

Then stay tuned! I have just been told that a particular publishing company is going to publish one of my books! It still needs to have the artist rendition completed for the cover, and it will need to go through some editing, but it will be published!

I know what many women (and men) fantasize about so I've put a lot of it in this book. I'll let you know when it will be available for your purchase. Just don't blush when you read it, and if it sounds like something you'd like to act out, let your partner read it, too.

More shall be revealed - and now I'm on my way back to finish writing more books for your raunchy minds!

I blow you a kiss!
Fanny

Pinterest Pleasures

Well, I did it! During the recent holiday season, I decided to start my own Pinterest page. You can go to it here. 

There are all sorts of “goodies” on there that some of you will enjoy, I’m sure. For example, you’ll find several that focus on Fantasy, like “Fantasy Housing”, “Satyrs and other mythical beings”, “Fae, Wizards, Elves”, “Wicca and other Magick”, “Woman Power and Magick”, “Otherworldly Visions”, “Places” - and so much more.

You’ll also find my own brand of humor on the “Off-color Fun” board. I have created a separate board for “Writing Inspiration” where I keep ideas and images I'll use in writing some of my stories. I especially enjoy finding inspirational quotes, and I have put those in “Words of Inspiration.”

There is one board on “Teaching Methods,” which may be why the Pinterest team thinks some of my posts contain content they don’t allow. They haven’t told me which ones in particular, but I have a hunch this is the board they are referring to. Until they take them off, I’ll leave them on for your pleasure (and mine).

There is a board on “Ancient Art,” another on “Feng Shui,” and another on “Exotic Dancing.”

Of course, I couldn’t create a Pinterest presence without including “Books” and “Writing Inspiration.” You might find what you enjoy most on “Living, Loving, and Relationships.”

Take a look to see what is there, and if you wish, feel free to “follow me,” and if you have anything you think would fit on one of my boards, please let me know.

~I blow you a kiss~

Fanny Jane Lucette

Can Erotica Be Literate?

There are many genres of writing and many subcategories within each genre.

Even a genre like “mystery” has several categories. I love all kinds of mystery stories, and some more than others. If written well and if a story has enough of a plot, I can enjoy a good “cozy” as much as a “thriller” or “suspense.” In other words, I am captured as much by the technique and uniqueness of the story as I am the genre.

Those of us who read and write in the erotica genre know that there are as many subcategories of that as of anything else. We can find everything from “sweet and romantic” to “kinky as hell.” Erotica is nothing new and we find it as far back as Ancient Greece and Rome. Sex will always sell because both women and men enjoy being titillated.

So here are a few of my questions about the genre of erotica:

• Why do so many people write erotica today with no story or plot?
•  Why do writers think they can get away with poor grammar and bad spelling?
•  Is it just the sex act they are trying to portray?
• Why is some of it even just bad sex?

In my own jaded way of thinking, I want the erotica I read to also give me more than simply “insert A into B and wiggle.” Is it just because I’m a female? Don’t men enjoy good literature as much as women?

Tie her up, give him a blowjob (yes, that’s all one word, not two), play at BDSM, do whatever you want to each other (at least anything that is Safe, Sane, and Consensual), but please, please give me a good story to go with it. Use spell check and grammar check, use a Thesaurus to find new and intriguing words, read good books on characterization and plotting, and be as creative as you can be. There may be nothing new in this world of sexuality, but it can still be fun, fascinating, and literate.

I will be publishing a few of my own stories soon, and I hope you will call me on it if you think I’ve written something that is nothing more than a technique for masturbation. I’ll let you know when my imagination is ready to be made public.

I blow you a kiss ~ ~

Fanny Jane Lucette

Where Do We Learn?

I recently read a question online asking about funny questions that had come up in elementary sex ed classes. Yes, I read many hysterically funny questions and answers on that site, but the main question as far as I’m concerned is “Where does a child get to learn some of these things?”

As parents, we are embarrassed to explain the facts of life to our children. As teachers, we aren’t any better. The children your child plays with certainly don’t know the answers, either. As the children get older, and they still haven’t heard some of the sexual terms, what happens then?

I teach human sexuality in a community college and I’ve had equally strange questions come up in class. One sweet young thing naively asked “What’s a blow job?” Fortunately, another student gave a very concise and accurate description that didn’t involve giggles from the rest of the class.

When I was in the hospital after delivering my first child (many decades ago!), the woman sharing my room said she had no idea there were “three holes down there” until she’d gotten pregnant. To my mind, there is no excuse for this kind of ignorance.

Come on, parents! We shelter our children from “naughty” words and acts, then wonder why they get pregnant in their early teens. We don’t give them accurate information, so they get inaccurate and scuzzy information from their friends, or online porn.

In class I emphasize the necessity of teaching the correct words for penis, breast, vagina, but I also encourage the students to let the child also learn slang terms. Allow a child to learn what happens between two people who love each other. There is no reason to shy away from letting our children know about life!

I blow you a kiss!

Fanny

Too Much of a Good Thing?

Was there ever a time when you had too much of a good thing? I’m talking about sex here, of course.

There are times when we think we’ll never get enough, that we will never have too much of this enjoyable thing in our lives that has the ability to turn us upside down.

But this question keeps popping up from time to time, and I’ve been wondering about it, as well.

So if you can remember a time when it felt like too much of a good thing, what did it feel like? What was going on? Was it when you were playing with a toy or was it something you were doing with another human being? Maybe it was just a fantasy? What was it?

I want to know if it spoiled you for the next time or for other people.
If you have experienced this “too much” phenomenon, is it something you’d like to experience again? How soon do you think you might have that experience again? Would you even want to?

Or was this a once in a lifetime event?

Personally, I’ve never had this experience. I mostly seem to be left wanting more. That has nothing to do with the person I’m with, just my own needs to keep that satisfied feeling going as long as possible. Because I am a multi-orgasmic woman, there have been times when I’ve been taken to the point of exhaustion, but I would never consider it “too much of a good thing.”

Talk to me about this subject of too much good sex. Is it even possible?

I blow you a kiss ~ ~ ~
Fanny