Sexy Seniors

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Beware!

In an earlier post this morning, I talked about the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and gave you the website. One reader just reported that their antivirus software popped up about the site (http://www.ncsfreedom.org/) that said it was infected with a script that attempts to change your search engine.

Thought you should know and you can take your chances on that. I suppose you can always change it back, but just wanted you to be aware of that happening. Other than that, the site is a good one.

I blow you a kiss ~ ~ ~

Fanny

What's Your Label?

I haven’t written anything in the past couple weeks because I’ve been too angry at our prudish society.

There is a segment of our population here in these dis-United States that would regulate exactly when, where, how, at what age, and with whom we shall have sex. That pretty much covers everything, doesn’t it?

I suspect that most people reading this have as strong a feeling about all this as I do. Why don’t we help each other out? Go to http://www.ncsfreedom.org/ - the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom home site. There you can sign up to get news from them, explore the site, donate, or join.

Back to our uptight society . . .

We will avert our eyes if our children have a taste of our beer or wine – but we won’t give them a condom. We will send our young men and women off to fight in a foreign country where they are at risk of being killed – but we won’t let them experiment with sexual feelings. We will say “kids will be kids” when they are social brats – but we feel horrified if our child falls in love with someone of the same gender.

We can applaud our politicians if they vote against a national health program – but we give a loud “tsk tsk” if they have fun on the side. We can feel sorry for the wives of politicians who “play around” – but we don’t want anyone using sex toys at home. In Texas, it’s still illegal to sell or use a vibrator. We’re in the second half of 2009, folks!

Why can’t our young people have sex before marriage? I’ve known marriages where there was no sexual compatibility at all afterward. At least if you have protected sex before marriage, you can learn what the other person likes, or if they can even have sex at all. Some can’t, you know.

Why can’t some of our politicians have a private life? Why do we make it our business? If they are voting for the welfare of our nation, that’s all I care about. I’m trying to stay positive about how we spend more time on the sex life of our politicians and youth than we do on how to promote world peace.

Are we too worried about our own sexuality or secret desires? Do we get some sort of vicarious thrill when someone else does what we’d like to do? Do we protest a little bit too much? Are we stuck on making everyone stick to the “proper” labels?

This brings me to where I really intended to go with this post – labels! I don’t want to be labeled with anything. I don’t want to be Mrs., Ms or Miss. I don’t want have a label that designates my marital status. I usually cross that out on forms. I don’t even want a label that says what gender I am. What difference does it make if I’m male or female? And I don’t want to be labeled as either a virgin or a slut.

I certainly don’t want a label that defines my sexuality. I’m a sexual human being, and that’s all anyone needs to know, because I turn on to a personality. I do not turn on to a particular gender, size, age, or nationality. How limiting is that?

This week, if you are one of those who look askance at anything that you don’t do yourself, I suggest you try to identify the source of your discomfort. What did you do as a young man or young woman that you don’t want your children to do? Who do you find attractive that is not your legal partner or who might be the same sex?

More than likely, I’m preaching to the choir here, but maybe you know someone who fits the category of “bigot.” If we think of the possible reasons behind their worry, then maybe we can be a bit more understanding – and gently lead them toward a more open attitude.

You might say, “Dream on, Fanny!” But I know that anything is possible, when people work together.

I blow you a kiss ~ ~ ~

Fanny