Sexy Seniors

Okay, I admit it! I’m a senior! And I love sex!

Doesn’t everyone know that sex ends after you walk down the aisle, except occasionally when you want to have another baby? Didn’t you realize that if someone has four children, they must have had sex four times?

Well, let me break it to you gently! To paraphrase an oft-used aphorism, it ain’t over ‘til that clod of dirt hits your coffin.

I think many people have strange notions about “senior sex” - that is, until they start getting older themselves. And for some people, sadly, that may be too true. The passion that started the ball rolling (so to speak) quickly dies when they find out what marriage is about. The wedding was great fun and so exciting – the marriage itself became a dud.

It seems that the older I get, the more I enjoy sex, for a variety of reasons, I’m sure. One reason is that I’ve learned so much more than when I had my first sexual encounter. What an innocent 20-year-old child I was! I do things now that I never ever dreamed of at that precious age. Being experimental is so much fun!

Perhaps one of the biggest reasons sex is more fun now is that I don’t have to worry about getting pregnant. That is a big relief! I love the children I have, but I was ready to stop so I could devote more time to the ones I had. Not being involved in the raising of children, I can now give more attention to my own needs.

Another thing - there’s no rush to get to the climax anymore. We can enjoy the process and make it all last longer. Don’t we all like it to last longer? (giggle)

Of course, there can be problems with senior sex, for both male and female. But doing something about those problems is part of the fun. For some of the problems, there are wonderful medications – some better than others.

Yes, older women often experience dryness – but lubricating your woman can be very erotic!

Yes, older men may have difficulty maintaining an erection – but either the little blue pill or the little yellow pill can bring back that thrill.

As an aside, from personal experimentation and experience, I find that the little yellow one (Cialis) is far superior to anything else. It doesn’t require you to “do it” within a certain time period, but gives you the ability anytime you want to within a time period of up to 72 hours! Now that’s what I love – it brings spontaneity back into your love life! (No, I’m not getting paid for this commercial – just telling you what I like!)

If you are young and reading this, you may be thinking “Ewwww!” I’m sure the last visual image you want is of your parents or grandparents with their legs or butt in the air! And all that wrinkly skin – yuk!

But if you think about the ways you enjoy sex now, can you fathom a time when you would give it up? It might take a little more effort in some regards, but it’s so worth it! And when you are focused on the pleasure of having good sex with that wonderful person, you don’t notice the wrinkles or little bit of flab that exists. You may even start to forget your own!

If you are one of the oldies reading this post who might be wondering about yourself, please continue your sex life. Or if it hasn’t been as rewarding or as active as you’d like, stretch yourself, get out there, and touch someone. If it’s broke, fix it!

There are some great sites online where you can find a like-minded soul. On the “FriendFinder” sites listed at the bottom of this page, you can check for someone your age or with your sexual orientation. There is even a SeniorFriendFinder. Just reading the listings and the interests of the people there, you will discover someone with your particular desires. (Hint: go to “home” once you get there and you’ll find more info.)

Are you are looking for someone from a specific or different culture? On the bottom of the home page, you’ll find a FriendFinder for Asia, Germany, Italy, France, Korea, Philippines, and more!

If you are looking for someone with a little kink, you might check out http://alt.com, also listed on the bottom of this page. You may think no one else likes what you do, but you will be delightfully surprised!

You might also join http://fetlife.comwhere people discuss fetishes from your wildest dreams. Doesn’t cost anything to read, explore, fantasize!

Mostly, I’d say get involved in something you love doing in your community. If you meet someone there, at least you have that one activity in common. Working together on a project gives you a chance to know what someone is really like. If you meet someone in a bar, all you have in common is a drink.

And trust me – you don’t want to base a relationship on a drink at any age!

Have fun – but be safe out there!

I blow you a kiss ~ ~ ~
Fanny